Shop shelves have been filled with lurid pink and red stuffed toys, chocolates and candies since the Christmas stock was taken down in the 48 hours after staff returned to work after Boxing Day, and the pressure is now on to do something for your date - or to find a date! OK, all melodrama and tongue in cheek fun-poking at commercialism aside, this leads into a pretty important topic that I think many of us living with pretty much any kind of disability battle with more than most - romantic relationships. I belong to a bunch of Deaf and Hard of Hearing groups on Facebook, and dating with hearing loss is easily one of the most common topics that people bring up. You see tons of stories from people being rejected by dates when they speak up about their hearing loss, comments from people who advise ONLY dating within the Deaf community, and a plethora of people looking for that special someone. We want to be wanted.